After a Year

It's been a year since I met you! 😄 Oh how time flies! Who would have thought that I will meet the person I will get to spend my forever with in Tinder, yeah?🔥

You wouldn't imagine how ecstatic I was praying,  "Sana mag- Match!". And my heart jumped for joy when it did.  I thought,  I must have done something good that God gave me the opportunity. This is it! Sabi ko sa sarili ko, "eto na to!" 😝👊💥

I can exactly remember how we started, when we were just chatting in Tinder, when I was sooo kilig with our phone conversations, our first meeting in Tagaytay, out of town travels and long drives.📞👦👧🗻✈🚢🚘

And I will forever thank you for meeting me every week regardless of how far we are from each other. Every single moment spent with you is well spent. 💕😊😍

I am excited for what's in store for us in the future. Build our own family, grow old with each other, achieve our goals and dreams together and spend the rest of our lives together. I love you. 💋💑💖

They Have The Best Ramen and I have The Best Date!

They Have The Best Ramen and I have The Best Date!

Ippudo Philippines is less than a year in the country and pretty much have captured the heart of many of our ramen-lovers just like me.

Hete's a little feedback when my husband and I tried their specialties.

I haven't been to Tokyo but it gave me the feel as if I was there. Just like how it is in the movies and documentaries I've seen. They have the best Ramen.

Staff are very accommodating. They consider if you're in the resto for the first time so they can orient you with all the condiments and what's best seller from their menu.

Bowls they said are for single person only, although I think my husband and I could have shared one Ramen bowl and tried other side dishes from their list. They will ask you if you're okay with your order and proactive enough to give you water. It was definitely worth the long wait.

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UP Town Center Open Kitchen

We saw Bella Padilla, Tunying, Cherry Pie Picache and Pokwang. There were a lot of food to try. Too bad I was feeling full when we get there. We get to try the burger and Tunying's Spanish and Loaf Bread. 😃

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Our Sincerest Gratitude

It was such a magical moment.

I was overzealous to see everyone teary-eyed,  all smiles and feeling ecstatic when the moment I entered the door.

I was feeling nervous, my feet was trembling, maybe because I was feeling ecstatic, "This is it! The moment I have been waiting for!" My mind was saying out loud. Or probably because they asked me to walk up the stairs from the main entrace of Caleruega. OMG.

I heard the violin play, that was my queue. "Lights, Camera, Action!" I knew I have to smile. I was just excited to see Argie.

They opened the door and I saw people clapping, smiling, crying, shouting, mixed emotions and a lot were taking pictures.

I saw Mama and Papa, my brother, I saw my friends, my team, I saw my cousins, I saw Argie's family, and everyone's just ready.

And the rest was history. A historical and magical moment of our lives that we will always cherish. Pictures and Videos have been posted and the official video and albums to be released soon.

For now, we'd like to thank all our everyone who took the time off of their busy schedule to witness our vows and be a part of our special day.

Dhong Nhanick Miggy Meggs, this wouldn't be complete without you. You're heaven sent.

Michiko and Ate Rose for helping Meggs and making our entourage and guests look pretty and gorgeous. 

Tina Velilla and Cecille Cabang, you girls are angels who helped me through this great event. Big hugs and thank you. I pray to God that soon you will have your own magical moment like this.

Jun and Kuya Arnel, thank you for standing there with Argie.

Our bridesmaids who really looked gorgeous that night - Ysabella, Angel, Cloe, Aleighia and Charmaine.

Groomsmen Angelo, Daniel, John, who were amazing too.

Our secondary sponsors, my cousin To Ben and friend, Weng for lighting our paths; Kuya Arnold and Alma, thank your for clothing us as one; Ate Arlene and to my ever supportive and helpful brother, Jude, for placing the cord and tying us as one.

Our Ninongs and Ninangs Tito Edgar and Tita Celsa, Tito Alex and Tita Dionisia, Rupert and Tessa, Papa P and Madam Lorna, Inday May Hope, Ninong Ace and Ninang Liza,  Tito Joven and Tita Rose, Ninong Bong and Ninang Normita.

Johann, Angelo and Andre for walking down the aisle with our ring,  coin and Bible.

Barbie and Collin, you both were so cute and pretty! 

Thanks to our friends and families who traveled miles away from Batangas just to see us on this day, friends from Baguio, Bacolod, Pampanga and of course,  Cebu.

To all our suppliers for making this day so much wonderful and making our dreams a reality.  (Please see the list of suppliers on another tab.)

Our heartfelt gratitude to everyone who were there and those who greeted, spent time texting or calling us, thank you! 

You May Now Kiss The Bride!

It's been a weeeeek! How time flies! I remember andaming hassle, drama and all but I think it went well. Our friends and families loved the sunset, enjoyed the food, and I'm sure most of them have started using our luggage tags. Yung pinaghandaan natin ng ilang bwan, lumipas agad-agad, pero ang pagmamahal ko sayo, hinding-hindi lilipas!

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Invitations Out

I am feeling so excited! Really. Geez.

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21 Days To Go!

Thanks to Parkershot Studio Photography for making this a reality.

Thank you Tina for being there and supporting us and Meggs for making us beautiful! :)

14.05.15
Caleruaga, Batulao, Nasugbu, Batangas,
Three in the afternoon

xoxo,
Argie and Jet

Keep Moving

They say "time flies without saying goodbye." Moons have gone by so fast and the first quarter of 2015 is almost over.

How was your year so far?

God has taught me a lot of things this quarter and I am humbled with all the blessings He has given me.

I am always grateful with a team that are truly dependable and results - driven. My ever supportive family who has always been there for me; friends you can always count on; Argie, who is indeed a Gift.

43 days to go and I am about to enter another chapter of my life. I know it is not going to be easy but for sure, God is always on our side.

xoxo,
Jet

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Cinderella

Everyone deserves their own happily ever after story. And Cinderella made us believe that with courage and kindness we can make a difference.

So we take a time off of our busy schedule on wedding preparations and work and watch Cinderella. Of course, we all know her story and you know exactly what is going to happen next. What really made that movie special, for me is how fairy godmother turned Cinderella into a wonderful princess. That was truly magical.

I wonder how long was that period when Mr. Kit was searching for the owner of the glass shoe until they reached the last house of Lady Tremaine. Interesting.

Anyway, after the movie we decided to look for my wedding shoes and we've searching and most of the shoes we wanted were either out of stock or sold out. Too bad.

Then we saw this.

We started joking that I can get a personalized shoes made of glass too for my waiting. Haha. I wish.

And maybe this carousel would be really really nice for my bridal car!

That is definitely gonna make all ladies' feel like a princess!

xoxo,
Jet

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Argie and Jet Prenup

I am feeling ecstatic today as Parkershot Photography Studio releases our prenup photos. I am just so excited to share them with you!

You can view the complete set here.

We would like to thank Parkershot Photography Studio for the hassle - free session, we had so much fun doing the photoshoot with you.

Miguel Actub for making us solo gorgeous that day.

Tina Velilla, my Maid of Honor and forever friend, thank you for helping us during the shot and for adjusting your schedule to be there.

We are as equally excited for the wedding too.

57 days to go!!!!

E - Session Preview

As the days draw closer with less than 2 months left till #ArgieandJet tie the knot, i still don't think it has hit me yet, but preparing for it together has been an adventure and a blessing for the both of us thus far... 14-05-15

Thanks to Parkershot Studio Photography for making our thoughts a reality. Dhong Nhanick Miggy Meggs for making us so gorg that day and for Tina Velilla for helping us though. 😘

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13 Signs He's Mr. Right

When I was young, I have been praying to God to bless me with the man I truly deserve. I came up with my own list of "wishes" on what kind of partner I have been dreaming to have. When I reached that point I thought I found 'the one', I asked for God's guidance and guide me through discerning what I really feel. 

I encountered this article of Jenna Koford and I thought it was an interesting read. This is not the 'rule', of course, my experiences are definitely different from mine, I just think this is a pretty good list to consider. 

I am just grateful to have found my Mr. Right. 

xoxo,
Jet

There's someone special in your life, and you want to know whether to keep the spark alive. Here are 13 things that indicate a healthy, happy relationship. If the majority applies to you, keep him in your life. If you aren't feeling the love, don't be afraid to make some changes.

1. You're happy

First things first, if you are unhappy on a regular basis, get out of there. Make sure your happiness begins within yourself. Those who rely on their significant other for ALL of their happiness usually don't make it very far.

2. You know each other's families

You don't have to go to every family event, but if you're familiar with his siblings and parents and have met a few of them, you're good to go. Secret relationships may be fun, but anything lasting means you're joining the family.

3. You are yourself

You are not afraid to tell him secrets, let him know when you're in a bad mood, or be a little goofy. You can be relaxed and comfortable with the person you are.

4. You laugh

Maybe he's not one of the three stooges, but if you are enjoying yourself and laughing a little bit each day, things are going well. Men pride themselves on their humor, and if his isn't working for you, you know what to do.

5. You don't have to talk all the time

Silence or pauses aren't uncomfortable when you are together, and you don't feel awkward. Good relationships don't require constant communication.

6. You communicate

On the flip side of number five, a healthy relationship is dependent upon communication. Being open, honest, and talkative with each other is the only way you will get to know each other more. Keep those lines of communication open. The worst way to ruin a relationship is to misunderstand or complicate things.

7. There is little to no drama

If your relationship feeds off the daily drama, someone is going to crack and it will not last long. If you find yourself angry, confused, depressed, or just fed up, it is definitely not a healthy relationship to be in.

8. You have balance

If you are spending every waking minute with this guy, odds are you have lost a lot of friends. If you are bringing your friends to every date night, odds are you and this guy aren't serious. Find that balance between having both of your own lives and being a part of each other's.

9. There is spontaneity

If you have fallen into a tedious routine, face the red flag and realize that any healthy relationship has an element of fun to it. That doesn't mean every day is a carnival adventure, but don't let things get predictably boring

10. You are learning

A good relationship causes you to think, to be challenged, and to grow. If you are not learning or growing, then maybe he isn't the one. In my best relationships, I have figured out more about the person I am and the goals I want in my life.

11. You have the same goals

Aside from the happiness factor, this is perhaps the second biggest factor in determining a relationship. If you both want the same things, share the same ideals, and want the same results, you will find success together. If you have no idea what his goals or desires are, it's time to kick up the communication.

12. He makes the effort to talk with and be around you

Any one-sided relationship will never work. Both sides need to be invested and interested in order for this healthy relationship to flourish. If you are constantly reaching out first or waiting for a text message all day, change something.

13. You feel safe

If you are continually questioning him or doubting your partner, seek safety somewhere else. The healthiest relationships are ones where both people feel safe, loved, and at home.

Maybe you haven't found your Prince Charming yet, or maybe you're reconsidering if he really is charming at all. Don't over analyze these thirteen signs. Every relationship is personal, so don't be so fast to leave him if he isn't exactly perfect today. Find the best parts of your partner and figure out if your relationship has a flourishing future.

The Six Steps to Happily Ever After

I didn't write this. I just found this in Argie's Facebook Notes and I think this is a good read. Yeah, it's too long, but trust me, I am not a relationship guru but I think there's a lot you kind find here. 

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What makes love last a lifetime? Affection? Yep. Respect? Sure. But a great relationship is not just about what you have. It's about what you do to make a relationship stronger, safer, more caring and committed.

Every couple needs to take certain steps -- six, to be precise -- that turn the two of you into not just you and me but we. You may not move through all the steps in order, and you may circle back to complete certain steps again (and again and again). But if you make it through them all, you'll be well on your way toward creating a relationship that will be your shelter as long as you both shall live. Here's how to make your "forever" fantastic.

Step #1: Find a shared dream for your life together.

It's easy to get caught up in the small stuff of a life together: What's for dinner tonight? Whose turn is it to clean the litter box? Did you pay the electric bill? But the best partners never lose sight of the fact that they're working together to achieve the same big dreams. "Successful couples quickly develop a mindfulness of 'us,' of being coupled," says Redbook Love Network expert Jane Greer, Ph.D., a marriage and family therapist in New York City. "They have a shared vision, saying things like, 'We want to plan to buy a house, we want to take a vacation to such-and-such a place, we like to do X, we think we want to start a family at Y time.'"

This kind of dream-sharing starts early. "Couples love to tell the story of how they met," points out Julie Holland, M.D., a psychiatrist in private practice in New York City and a clinical assistant professor of psychiatry at the New York University School of Medicine. "It's like telling a fairy tale. But happy couples will go on creating folklore and history, with the meet-cute forming the bedrock of the narrative." As you write and rewrite your love story ("our hardest challenge was X, our dream for retirement is Y"), you continually remind yourselves and each other that you're a team with shared values and goals. And P.S.: When you share a dream, you're a heck of a lot more likely to make that dream come true.

Step #2: Choose each other as your first family.

For years, you were primarily a member of one family: the one in which you grew up. Then you got married, and suddenly you became the foundation of a new family, one in which husband and wife are the A-team. It can be tough to shift your identity like this, but it's also an important part of building your self-image as a duo (and maybe, eventually, as three or four or...).

For me, making this transition meant stopping the incessant complaining to my mom when I was mad at my husband -- my behavior was disloyal, and I had to learn to talk to Jonathan, not about him. My friend Lynn tells the story of her mother's reaction to a trip to the Middle East she and her then-boyfriend (now husband) had planned. Her mother hit the roof, calling incessantly to urge Lynn not to go. Eventually, Lynn's boyfriend got on the phone with Mom and explained why they were excited to share this experience. "It was clear then that we were the team," Lynn says now. "Not teaming up against my mother, but teaming up together to deal with her issues."

Whatever your challenges -- an overprotective mom? an overly critical father-in-law? -- you have to outline together the boundaries between you and all of the families connected to you. Not only will you feel stronger as a united front but when you stick to your shared rules, all that family baggage will weigh on you a lot less.

Step #3: Learn how to fight right.

I'm embarrassed to think of how I coped with conflict early in my relationship with Jonathan. I stormed out -- a lot. I once threw an apple at his head. Hard. (Don't worry, I missed -- on purpose.) I had a terrible habit of threatening divorce at the slightest provocation. But eventually I figured that this was pretty moronic. I didn't want out, and I knew that pelting someone with fruit was not a long-term marital strategy.

"Fighting is the big problem every couple has to deal with," says Daniel B. Wile, Ph.D., a psychologist and couples therapist in Oakland, CA, and author of "After the Fight". That's because fights will always come up, so every couple needs to learn how to fight without tearing each other apart.

Fighting right doesn't just mean not throwing produce; it means staying focused on the issue at hand and respecting each other's perspective. Couples that fight right also find ways to defuse the tension, says Wile -- often with humor. "Whenever one of us wants the other to listen up, we mime hitting the TV remote, a thumb pressing down on an invisible mute button," says Nancy, 52, an event producer in San Francisco. "It cracks us up, in part because it must look insane to others." Even if you fight a lot, when you can find a way to turn fights toward the positive -- with a smile, a quick apology, an expression of appreciation for the other person -- the storm blows away fast, and that's what matters.

Step #4: Find a balance between time for two and time for you.

Jonathan and I both work at home. This frequently leads to murderous impulses. Though I'm typing away in the bedroom and he's talking to his consulting clients in our small home office, most days it really feels like too much intimacy for me.

But that's my bias. When it comes to togetherness, every couple has its own unique sweet spot. "There are couples that are never apart and there are couples that see each other only on weekends," Greer says. With the right balance, neither partner feels slighted or smothered. You have enough non-shared experiences to fire you up and help you maintain a sense of yourself outside the relationship -- not to mention give you something to talk about at the dinner table. But you also have enough time together to feel your connection as a strong tie rather than as a loose thread. Your togetherness needs will also change over time, so you'll have to shift your balance accordingly. "My husband and I spend a lot of time together, but it's almost all family time," says Katie, 40, a mom of two in San Leandro, CA. "We realized a few months ago that we hadn't had a conversation that didn't involve the kids or our to-do lists in ages, so we committed to a weekly date. We were so happy just to go to the movies and hold hands, something we hadn't done in ages. It felt like we were dating again!"

Step #5: Build a best friendship.

Think about the things that make your closest friendships irreplaceable: the trust that comes with true intimacy, the willingness to be vulnerable, the confidence that the friendship can withstand some conflict. Don't those sound like good things to have in your relationship with your signficant other, too?

"Happy couples are each other's haven," says Holland. "They can count on the other person to listen and try to meet their needs." Greer adds, "When you're true friends, you acknowledge and respect what the other person is; you don't try to control or change them. This creates a sense of safety and security when you're together -- you know you're valued for who you are and you see the value in your partner."

Then there's the way, when you've been with someone a while, that you become almost a mind reader. You have a shared history and inside jokes. Your guy knows what you'll find funny, you forward him links to articles you know he'll enjoy, and best of all, you two can make eye contact at a given moment and say volumes without opening your mouths. And is there anything more pleasurable than sharing the newspaper with someone? Sitting in companionable silence, absorbed in your respective reading, sipping coffee, occasionally reading something out loud, but mostly just lazing happily together, communing without needing to speak? Ahh....

Step #6: Face down a major challenge together.

You're sailing along through life, and suddenly you hit a huge bump. A serious illness. Unemployment. The loss of a home. A death in the family. How do you cope?

The truth is, you never know how strong your relationship is until it's tested.

The truth is, you never know how strong your relationship is until it's tested. All too often, the stress of a crisis can pull a couple apart. But the good news is, when you do make it through in one piece, you might just find yourselves tighter than ever.

"What didn't happen to us?" says Daryl, 28, a preschool teacher in Harrisburg, PA. "My husband lost his job and took a minimum-wage job he was way overqualified for just to make ends meet. He was offered a better job in a mountain town outside San Diego, so we moved. Then during the California wildfires several years ago, our house burned down and we lost everything. We were living in a one-room converted garage with no running water and a newborn. But we found that this chaos somehow brought us even closer together. We took turns losing it. We really kept each other sane."

Hey, being a couple is no roll in the hay. It's tough, real work. But the reward, the edifice you build together that will shelter you through years of tough times, is more than worth the effort. The small, friendly cottage you build -- decorated with your shared history and stories, filled with color and laughter -- will be the warmest and safest retreat you can imagine.

Reprinted with permission of Hearst Communications, Inc.

We're Getting Married!

MAY 14, 2015.

Save the Date. 

I am just overly excited to share with you too our new blog! Here you will find everything about us. :)

How we started, our romantic dates and cheesy moments together and our journey ahead.

Please stay tuned for more details and updates regarding our wedding as we continously update this page!

Thank you for dropping by!

See you again!

xoxo
Jet